Tuesday, June 7, 2011

I Wore the Ocean in the Shape of a Girl Review and Blog Tour

I Wore the Ocean in the Shape of a Girl: A MemoirAt the age of fifteen, Kelle Groom found that alcohol allowed her to connect with people and explore intimacy in ways she’d never been able to experience before. She began drinking before class, often blacked out at bars, and fell into destructive relationships. At nineteen, already an out-of-control alcoholic, she was pregnant. Accepting the heartbreaking fact that she was incapable of taking care of her son herself, she gave him up for adoption to her aunt and uncle. They named him Tommy and took him home with them to Massachusetts. When he was nine months old, the boy was diagnosed with leukemia—but Kelle’s parents, wanting the best for her, kept her mostly in the dark about his health. When Tommy died he was only fourteen months old. Having lost him irretrievably, Kelle went into an accelerating downward spiral of self-destruction. She emerged from this free fall only when her desire to stop drinking connected her with those who helped her to get sober.

In stirring, hypnotic prose, I Wore the Ocean in the Shape of a Girl explores the most painful aspects of Kelle’s addiction and loss with unflinching honesty and bold determination. Urgent and vital, exquisite and raw, her story is as much about maternal love as it is about survival, as much about acceptance as it is about forgiveness. Kelle’s longing for her son remains twenty-five years after his death. It is an ache intensified, as she lost him twice—first to adoption and then to cancer. In this inspiring portrait of redemption, Kelle charts the journey that led her to accept her addiction and grief and to learn how to live in the world.

Through her family’s history and the story of her son’s cancer, Kelle traces with clarity and breathtaking grace the forces that shape a life, a death, and a literary voice. (Goodreads)

This book grabbed me from the first page. The raw emotion Kelle Groom shares through her prose is heart wrenching.

"Morphine makes me weightless, airborne. Like a spider. I rest in a corner of the high ceiling, look down on my body on the white hospital bed. It is just one shot, one needle through my skin. But even nine months pregnant, my frame is small-the weight all baby. So the effect of the drug is a flood in my veins. I'd like to walk down the street feeling this light. I'd like to be a passenger in a dusty car on a dirt road, and see a veil of trees, the clearing inside."

This book has power. Groom's voice will draw you in with its elegant and unforgettable lyrical quality. She doesn't apologize for being a teenage alcoholic or her actions that lead to her being pregnant at 19. Her description of giving up her son had tears running down my face and me grabbing for my dog to give him a fierce hug. If you read any biography this year, it should be this one. I just received this book from the publisher in exchange for a review and it is stunning. Thumbs up for sheer gut wrenching quality and page turning ability. I will be watching for more from Kelle Groom.

5/5 Stars.

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